This was a week or so ago – a few days after Jesse’s surgery.
For extended family who might not have realized – since we’ve kind of been hiding in a hole of sorts for months and months – Jesse tore his ACL again in February, along with his PCL (I think that’s the one), and his meniscus got stuck between his knee in an ‘aftershock’ injury (basically from walking around with the torn ACL for a few months). So, to prolong a long story, he’s been waiting on a surgery date, unable to walk, since April/May or so. And he finally had surgery late July. So, if you haven’t heard from us, it’s because it’s been a somewhat tough last couple of months and we are really, really glad to see a light at the end after a successful surgery!
Back to the task at hand…a few days after surgery, Jesse wanted to get out of the house (it was super hot the two-three days following the surgery, and he was stuck in an immobilizer from his hip to below the knee)…so we went and picked up Blenders for dinner and parked at the beach. He sat in the car, but at least got some fresh ocean air (heals better than the pain killers, I can tell you with confidence after watching his face!)…and the kids and I played in the sand right between the car and the water.
It’s times like these I’m acutely aware of how thankful I am for so many parts of our lives. To name a few:
* Our kiddos (duh). But here’s something I’m really thankful for often, but don’t mention enough – that they are best friends and built-in playmates. Nope, they don’t always get along…and nope, they don’t always want to do the same activities. But on the whole, these two have eachother’s backs and are the best of pals.
* Where we live. Dang, Santa Barbara is expensive and I complain a lot about that, often to the point of not appreciating what we have. But it really is the best spot in the world (especially to enjoy evenings like this)- not too hot, not too cold, beach, mountains, a little bit city, a little bit country, and very few bugs (weird, but I kid you not – every other place I’ve been that has nice evenings like this also has bug bites! And I for some reason am tasty and get eaten alive! Not in SB though!). It’s kind of perfect for us, and can’t believe we’re so blessed that it’s home!
* Health. We have two healthy kiddos (hands down our number one blessing). I am blessed to be able-bodied enough to take care of the house, kids, and Jesse while he recovers. It’s made me appreciate that there’s two of us when he is healthy and that what he has is “fixable”, and that’s a lot to be thankful for that not everyone can count on.
I could go on, but you get the picture. It’s not a’first’ or anything new or exciting, but I took a bunch of pictures with the intent of sharing because it was one of those moments I would give anything to pause and relive over and over to memorize every sound, taste, scent, and sight. If time would freeze a moment, I think one of these ‘normal’ nights would be my choice above anything extraordinary – they are my favorite in all the land.
(Here Ash was playing in our “super duper long, tall shadows, Mommy”!):
Here’s just a quick clip of some of the live pictures converted to video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WThTBHT9Fg